In the lead-up to birth, it’s easy to feel like there is so much to do. So much to read, watch, buy, plan, and decide. Birth preparation can quickly become overwhelming - even when it starts with the best intentions. But what if preparing for birth didn’t mean filling every moment with information? What if preparation could be less anxiety provoking, slower, and more intuitive? Preparation doesn’t have to mean knowing everything There’s a common idea that being “prepared” means understanding every possible scenario. Learning about birth can be empowering and exciting, however, over-preparing can sometimes pull us away from trusting ourselves and the natural birthing process. Birth is a deeply personal experience that unfolds differently for every woman, every time they birth. Preparation isn’t about controlling the outcome, it’s about creating a foundation that allows you to feel supported, grounded, and heard. The value of simplicity Often, the most supportive forms of preparation are the simplest ones. Creating space to reflect on what matters to you. Noticing what helps you feel calm and safe. Choosing tools of comfort over complexity. What this may look like: Thinking about the environment you’d like to birth in, and manifesting this. Noticing what helps you relax in everyday life or moments of stress Choosing a few familiar items that bring comfort and grounding, or familiarising yourself with some brith tools. Letting go of comparison It’s easy to compare - birth plans, preferences, stories, and tools. But there is no universal checklist for birth, you have to choose what is right for you. What feels supportive for one woman may feel unnecessary for another. Preparing without over-preparing means allowing yourself to choose less, and trusting that you already carry intuition and strength within you. Preparation as emotional readiness Birth preparation isn’t only practical - it’s emotional too. Allowing yourself to sit with uncertainty, acknowledging that you don’t need to have all the answers, and giving yourself permission to change your mind and be ok if your birth pathway changes route. As much as we all hope for the perfect, fast and easy birth, trusting yourself and your body to work through labour is important, especially in the moments of doubt. This kind of preparation can’t be rushed, or perfected but it can become one of the most grounding. Choosing gentle supports, not solutions Some women choose to gather a collection of items to support comfort and familiarity during birth - not as solutions but as tools they can utilise to help them through their contractions and labour and offer drug-free pain relief methods. This can include things like; tactile supports, soft lighting, words or reminders that feel grounding. These choices aren’t about fixing birth - they’re about supporting you. Trusting yourself is part of preparation As you do prepare and focus some energy towards your upcoming birth, this is your reminder to slow down, tune inward, and listen to some grounding birth music or repeat some birth affirmations. Trust that you already hold what you need, and you will met your baby one breath at a time. If you're wanting to take some birth tools into your birth space, we have already taken the overwhelm away by putting together and creating a birth bundle that has it almost all. You can find this on our website. With gratitude Nicole, Founder - Cosy Mama  

Birth is not just a physical event - it’s a hugely emotional, hormonal, and deeply instinctive experience. The environment you labour and birth in plays a huge role in how safe, comfortable, and empowered you feel. When your surroundings feel calm, your body feels comfortable to do what it’s designed to do: soften, open, and birth your baby. Why Your Birth Environment Matters During labour, your body works best when you feel: Safe Relaxed Undisturbed Supported These feelings encourage the release of oxytocin, an important hormone that fuels contractions and helps labour progress. Stress or fear, on the other hand, can trigger adrenaline - which can slow or stall labour. A calm environment supports: Steadier oxytocin flow More effective contractions Lower pain perception Better energy conservation A more positive birth experience overall Your birth environment doesn’t have to be or look perfect, it just needs to help you feel grounded, safe, and held. Here are some ways you can set a tone to your birthing environment 1. Dim the Lights Soft lighting signals to your body that you’re safe and protected. It helps calm your nervous system and supports oxytocin production. Try: Close curtains/blinds Battery-operated candles or reel candles if at home Soft fairy lights Himalayan salt lamps Harsh fluorescent lights can be overstimulating during labour, so dimming them can make a big difference. 2. Bring Sound That Grounds You Sound is powerful. It can soothe, distract, or help you find rhythm. Try: A birth playlist filled with calming music A meditation or hypnosis playlist Nature sounds Your partner's voice guiding your breath Affirmation tracks Choose sounds that help you feel connected to your breath and your body. 3. Consider Scent  Aromatherapy can support relaxation, grounding, and emotional balance. Popular safe labour-friendly scents include: Lavender - calming and soothing Clary Safe - often used in later labour (avoid before 38 weeks) Frankincense - grounding and centring  You can diffuse oils, place a few drops on a cotton ball or face cloth to inhale, or use a pre-made roller. Included in our Nurtured Birth Bundle is a pre-made essential oil mix for massage.  4. Make the Space Yours Small personal touches can completely shift the energy in your chosen birth space. Try bringing/using: Fairy lights A familiar pillow Birth affirmation cards  Favourite comfy clothing Any photos that bring comfort Birth tools (TENS machine, handheld fan, our Nurtured Birth Bundle) When the space feels like your own, your body relaxes. 5. Create Emotional Safety Physical calmness is only part of the picture. Emotional safety is what truly allows your body to soften. Here are some ways to create this: Choose a support team who make you feel held, and do not interfere  Communicate your birth preferences early Protect your space from unnecessary interruptions  Use gentle touch, massage or acupressure  Keep your birth environment quiet, not busy or overwhelming When you feel emotionally safe, your body can birth intuitively. 6. Reduce Stimulation Labour is a deeply internal process. Too much stimulation can feel distracting or overwhelming. Try: Staying off bright screens Keep conversations minimal and quiet Limit people coming and going  Slow down the pace A quieter space supports deeper presence and rhythm. 7. Use Birth Tools That Support Calm Your birth toolkit can help regulate your nervous system and keep you centred. Helpful tools include: TENS machine Water (for hydration and as a birthing tool - birth pool, shower or bath) Handheld fan Yoga positions + movement  Breathing techniques Heatpack Birth Comb Acupressure balls Affirmation Cards Homeopathy  Essential Oils Fairy lights Heatpack These small tools make a big difference in helping you stay focused and comfortable. You will find a lot of these in our Nurtured Birth Bundle. Final Thoughts Your birth environment doesn’t need to be fancy or perfectly curated - it just needs to feel like a safe, supportive cocoon for you to soften into the experience. When your space feels calm, your body feels calm, which means your hormones, contractions, and energy all work more harmoniously. Creating a peaceful birth environment is one of the simplest but most impactful ways to support your birth experience, no matter where you choose to birth. With love and light Nicole- Founder of Cosy Mama

Hello, lovely mamas - I’m so glad you’ve found your way here. I’m a stay-at-home mum to two beautiful boys, raising them in the quiet rhythms of rural New Zealand. Life here is full of muddy boots, boys sitting in Opas tractor, and the kind of stillness that makes you notice the small, sacred moments of motherhood. Originally, I was born in Switzerland, but New Zealand has been home since I was three. It’s where I’ve grown-up, birthed, and found my sense of belonging - both as a mother and as a woman learning to trust her own intuition. The Heart Behind Cosy Mama Cosy Mama was born from my deep passion for birth and a longing to bring together a community of like-minded women. Women who value slowing down, listening to their bodies, and using natural supports to nurture their pregnancy, birth, and postpartum journey. For me, this space isn’t just about products or preparation - it’s about empowerment.It’s about remembering that birth isn’t something that happens to you - it’s something you are an active part of.  A Little About My Journey Before becoming a mum, I worked as a registered Palliative Care Social Worker, I loved my job there and the people I got to work with. Supporting people’s choices, voices, and rights has always been at the core of who I am. That same belief now shapes everything I do with Cosy Mama. I’ve seen how birth has become overly medicalised in our western world - where women’s choices can be overshadowed by policies, protocols, and fear. Somewhere along the way, the sacred, intuitive nature of birth has been forgotten. Cosy Mama was created to help change that - even in small ways. A Space for Trust, Calm, and Empowerment I truly hope this becomes a place where you feel supported to make choices that feel right for you.Whether you’re preparing for a home birth, birthing centre, or hospital - my wish is that you feel calm, informed, and deeply connected to your own strength. Through the resources, products, and community shared here, I want to help you discover tools that bring comfort, connection, and empowerment - from gentle essentials that support your body and provide natural pain relief, to mindful practices that ground your mind. Every woman deserves to feel confident in her body’s wisdom and in the power of creating her own birth story. Here’s to Every Mama Here’s to every mama finding her own cosy way into motherhood - guided by intuition, wrapped in community, and surrounded by the quiet knowing that she is enough. Welcome to Cosy Mama.A space for slowing down, learning, and remembering the power that’s always been within you! With love and light  Nicole- Cosy Mama Founder